The average age of first-time mothers was 24 years old in 1970. Today, the average age of new mothers is 28. This trend is thanks to higher education and more women choosing when to start their families. Women in college wish to establish their careers before trying to conceive, and with reliable birth control being easily accessible, this gives women and their spouses the luxury to hold off on becoming parents.
There are numerous things you must consider before choosing parenthood as part of your future. The accompanying guide provides a brief list of questions to ask yourself before you and your partner make the decision that you are both ready for a baby.
Conception is statistically easiest for women when they are in their 20s. However, many women are choosing to wait because they feel that they are not fit to be a mother that young. Another major reason women are waiting is because they have not found the appropriate partner. The U.S. Census Bureau states that the median marriage age in 1970 was 23 for men and 20 for women. In 2018, it was 29 for men and 27 for women. A committed relationship is arguably the biggest determinant in choosing to become parents.
In addition to a loving partner, it’s important to think about personal goals such as travel and personal achievements. Your finances should also be taken into consideration; the infographic details well-known and hidden costs of starting a family.
It’s recommended to have a strong support system of family and friends. If you do not, however, one option is to join with other parents in the same situation and find a solution. Also, make sure the neighborhood or area you are relocating to is kid friendly. The phrase “it takes a village to raise a child” is not just a platitude.
Finally, conception, pregnancy, and parenthood are much easier if you are in adequate health. You may be mildly healthy, but still have problems conceiving due to any number of factors, such as the mother’s age, weight, or other genetic issues. If you still seek parenthood despite these problems, it is recommended to be open to genetic testing of you, your partner and the baby’s health in utero. If you suffer or have suffered from multiple miscarriages, seek answers, and consider in vitro fertilization (IVF) to inquire about your future chances of conception and a healthy birth.
We wish you nothing but the best when making your decision and hope a happy and healthy baby is in your future.
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